What do you all do when your wife gets into a snit with your side of the family at a social gathering and you want to defend her.......but you feel she is wrong, even when the argument is petty and small.........how do you guys keep the peace and not let things escalate into WW3? It is worse when the car ride home 'discussions' dig up old crap that had nothing to do with the current situation.....

your thoughts?